I have taken 4 screenshots to help me explain my issue and hopefully get to the root of the problem faster.
Sometime around the latest update, my header menu messed up. It went from 5 options (with one drop down), to 9 options. It looks rather messy and for some reason it has a link to a page that I wasn't using anymore 'Contact Us'. It also was missing the link to my blog altogether.
I tried to update my menu, I deleted the 'Contact Us' option, experimented moving the drop down items under another page and back, saved- and nothing happened. So I went to the home page, clicked customize and rechose the menu, saved and updated, still nothing.
Obviously I am doing something wrong. No matter what I do, it wont update. The header looks extremely messy and outdated for my website. Am I doing something wrong?
Also, on closer inspection, it has the same messed up menu for the footer. Which, upon closer inspection, I never chose to have a footer menu.
http://i1318.photobucket.com/albums/t658/AcaciaLandscape/Troubleshooting/Menus_zps1de0d1d9.jpg
http://i1318.photobucket.com/albums/t658/AcaciaLandscape/Troubleshooting/Menus2_zpscae45c85.jpg
http://i1318.photobucket.com/albums/t658/AcaciaLandscape/Troubleshooting/Menus3_zps4a1f1623.jpg
http://i1318.photobucket.com/albums/t658/AcaciaLandscape/Troubleshooting/Menus4_zps8eb9f0dd.jpg